THE AMAZING DELHI GALS and the DESI Small Town Behenjis
Anyone in this world would agree that Delhi is a rocking place where cultures meet and life celebrates its grandeur.
Its welcoming, daring and ah so well crafted.. Its a reflection of ancient Indian culture and the future prospective potential of India. Then Why at times it suffocates the small town dudes. I have been trying to find an answer and yes I haven't found one. Its like a Love Hate Love rapport I have with this city and so do all he people from the heaven called Dehradun who live here.
Delhi is not rude but yes its too self obsessed. It is not unwelcoming but yes it lets you stay here only if you follow all its rules. And rules ....
I have noticed the cribbing lass in me has grown too active now. and for everything small that goes wrong with me I try to blame on this city. Its not the city actually its me who is not ready to make terms with it. Its true or not but yeah Delhi in a way rocks and in a way sucks too.
The attack from me has always been on the Delhi gals why I do not know. But yes the crass cacophony of the sublimed mitigating abuses and the sheer act of well crafted deception is something which are the identification of Delhi lasses on my mind. But can I say every dehradun gal is as innocent, cute and well behaved as I think Delhi gals are not... Not really I can't comment on that but yeah the majority would be.... Coz we are born and brought up in such a way that for us crossing the lines is always a BIG deal.. I bet any gal who has been raised in an environment where shame, respect and niceness is inculcated in their habits would hesitate to cheat someone.
This distinction is not only in attitude but in the way the Delhi gals conduct themselves...
I have met some of the most loving and most caring gals as friends and relatives but yes the sorest of experiences and worst of pangs have also come from incidentally girls who were from Delhi...
They would changes colors in a jiffy and then pretend to be as loving as they can... One moment they are your well wishers at other they are just the conspiring souls....
If you say Love is an element of life, to my surprise Love in Delhi gals means just a handsome hunk who can drive them to the heppest discotheque in the most expensive SUV and spend ounces of money on them... Oozing Sensuality, flashy attires and yes the most daring of all the ability to woo any guy....
When we the small townies try to treasure and safeguard our only relationship for a long lasting bond, the metropolitan lass experiments till she finds the most suitable. We trust everyone that forwards a loving gesture and they broke us every time with their great skills.
We cannot let the moments pass by our heart!!! And for us good relationships and bonds or care are never by- gones and for them every thing is nothing but a passing relationship....
I have seen many gals and again many of them being Delhites, switching relationship is a casual affair and yeah they don't even fear messing with someone else's life. They do need men around them to announce that yeah they are demanded and the declining male attention they get in college, work place or else where is a sign of their lessening oomph.....
So they wont let that happen....And yeah they can do anythng from being sweet and frank to painted and dainted with makeup to catch attention....And the issue is that get it!!!!
A lot of times the small town lasses may seem wanabees, trying to hard to flash between the delhi gals but we still stand apart!!! Because our class is not in the clothes we wear or not in the number of guys we flirt with in college, in workplace neither in the pretensions which we pose of being nice to everyone....
We do believe in truth in relationships and be it gud or bad we are what we are.....
Thats why How much Behenji and Wanabe the Few Snob gals write us off as we are still the Gal you take home and introduce your mom to.........
The irony is even after writing all this I have seen and met some amazing delhi gals who have made me think differently..... Wishing to meet some great gals in this town who change my impressions completely.....