Sometimes I wonder which category I fit in... Behenji or Babe... I think a lot of my gender peer fall in same dilemma. because we have hearts and mind of traditions and looks of modernity.... But the society...is fuc**** judgemental.... :-)
Beauty or lack of it, Intelligence or lack of it, prudence or lack of it, What ever the case is women in every way needs to justify, define and re-convey her status to the world. It is quite an idiocy of some sorts that we the women continuously battle to prove our points It is ironical that the society that seems to be created, developed and nurtured by the women, has only made laws and bye laws for this poor creature. The testimony of a woman's intellect is the simplistic looks she adorns. The proof of her being fashion forward is her short clothes. I detest the presumptions people make for a girl just by looking at her. I do not want to convey that we women are always saints but almost always we arent the bitches until you drag us to be. I as a educated girl do not need fair and lovely to enhance my skintone. My talent adds the shine to me. IF I AM FAT it is my problem- I carry all my weight not You. If I put makeup that is because I like it not because I want to impress you... :-P.... As a women- married or single or committed I know where my bounds are. I need not shown my periphery. If I am single it doesnt mean I am always available to be taken, if I am married I am committed but not drooped not to make any friends... Its my choice to be a BOMBSHELL or a BEHENJI... To be HOT or cool. To be size Zero or a ZERO like shape.... Problem with men is :-) they like good looking girls. They adore them but when these good looking girls come with a mind and talent of their own, they find hard to compete.with!!!!!! Whenever I try to assimilate all my thoughts, control my women activist kind of emotions and try to pacify my boiling thoughts- something comes popping to accelerate them, It is not strange that people have awful connotations for women, they have amazing theories to gauge a woman's character. They have some highly advanced processes to decide a girl's character by the color of her lipstick. They have super brains which can tell that all the work she did in her project was actually done by another guy. A cute girl, a hot girl, a beautiful girl, a dumb girl, a plain girl, a desperate girl, a nice girl... Girl friend material- marriage material... they have great understanding of everyone..... The paradoxical society that would not accept a woman as she is and try to change her for way they want. "Women are not customizable piece of code which you can alter at runtime and execute as you need. They are hardcoded ROM and you need to see, use and cater with whatever is already written.... If there is an error you cannot debug and fix it, else your system can crash" " Some people might even feel that women are like tailor-made solutions - you buy the software and get it tweaked for your requirements. But they do not know that women are actually the Virus - Trojan- malware if activated can kill the entire system. It is sad to see the SANE, EDUCATED and literate sitting in glass door buildings make comments on girls- when they ward off the talent of girls just because she is fashionable. Some absurd but there theories for women
The stereo types are everywhere- in villages, in small towns in big towns, everywhere. But the sigh of relief is that women today have uncanny ignorance to all this crap. They have reached a consensus with the stigmatic society... You keep blabbering the shit about us :-) We simply do our jobs the best we can. There are thousands of girls in various big towns who are intelligent, hardworking, smart and as sharp as men, they are modern but not available. Married or single, house maker or professional- we have a mind today and an existence of our own. Yes for ages to come mankind would owe its existence to women. Salute to the modern day women, who as wives, sisters, mothers, beloved, colleagues, daughters, friends, bosses, teachers and in many other way still complete the MANkind........
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